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University of Washington professor of psychology Dr. John Gottman can tell if a marriage is doomed. After 14 years of studying 650 couples with the aid of …
I wish I knew you before next month will be ours 50th anniversary. Oh boy I went through a-lot. I know for sure if our families they here was easier. But wish you were around sooner. Thanks
Ive been listening to Gottman since my boyfriend cheated on me. And we made the decision to continue and make it work, but i now the sense of mistrust will not go away and when im alone i feel miserable. I guess i expect him to be more empathetic and apologetic about what he did. But it didnt really happen. So at this point not sure what to do.
The third period of high risk is when the marriage hits the 10 year mark for Social Security benefits and the fourth is when the high earners starts their retirement income
Our therapist has tried to get Gottman into our relationship, but it doesn't work with someone with neurosis like my wife. She is high in conscientiousness, and neurosis, low in openness, agreeableness and extroversion. This therapy depends on two people who can view their actions objectively, it holds no hope for a neurotic individual. I've studied so much in the past 2 years, and she has done nothing…talk about contempt! …the writing is on the wall, she just has no clue that she put it there!
I'll stay with my wife threw arguments,finical issues, if she gained wait or developed depression ect.. However if I'm cheated on, lied to and mis treated I will walk away for ever
Dr. Gottman is brilliant! I give my clients his videos and I always get wonderful feedback. I love the data behind the Gottman Couples Therapy Model, I use this model with my clients and this model is very "teachable" as John mentions in the video.
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Wow! What an amazing and insightful interview, even now 22 years later. Dr. Gottman is brilliant.
I wish I knew you before next month will be ours 50th anniversary. Oh boy I went through a-lot. I know for sure if our families they here was easier. But wish you were around sooner. Thanks
A normal conversation
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Wonderful interview.
Enlightening! Create a shared system of meaning. Communicate disagreements in a gentle way without attacking your partner.
Emotionally intelligent husbands.. umm.. yeah.
Ive been listening to Gottman since my boyfriend cheated on me. And we made the decision to continue and make it work, but i now the sense of mistrust will not go away and when im alone i feel miserable. I guess i expect him to be more empathetic and apologetic about what he did. But it didnt really happen. So at this point not sure what to do.
I hate men since 1977
Great youtube!
Eric Barker brought me here
in my opinion no one should be get marry .
problem solve
Why ALWAYS "men"/ "husbands" are singled out FOR BLAME ??!!
No balanced view
Prejudicial views
Is NOT "scientific"
I haven't heard him say or support men/husbands ??
The third period of high risk is when the marriage hits the 10 year mark for Social Security benefits and the fourth is when the high earners starts their retirement income
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Loved this interview. Beautiful truthful message.
Our therapist has tried to get Gottman into our relationship, but it doesn't work with someone with neurosis like my wife. She is high in conscientiousness, and neurosis, low in openness, agreeableness and extroversion. This therapy depends on two people who can view their actions objectively, it holds no hope for a neurotic individual. I've studied so much in the past 2 years, and she has done nothing…talk about contempt! …the writing is on the wall, she just has no clue that she put it there!
"i want you to go upstairs and kill that boy"….. LOL!!!
I love John Gottman and his work, but wow, what a wonderful interviewer! Eloquent and insightful as much as the interviewee.
Thank you for this video.
Ha? what a load of B.S! Don't listen to this crap , please!
I'll stay with my wife threw arguments,finical issues, if she gained wait or developed depression ect.. However if I'm cheated on, lied to and mis treated I will walk away for ever
Dr. Gottman is brilliant! I give my clients his videos and I always get wonderful feedback. I love the data behind the Gottman Couples Therapy Model, I use this model with my clients and this model is very "teachable" as John mentions in the video.
great interview (interviewer and interviewee)
So that means the group with kids has a higher divorce rate in the long run, right?